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I'm old - relatively - and I don't use social media, so I don't get myself into trouble, but I have heard of many instances of people putting themselves and others at risk by doing stupid things. These would include texting while driving, posting inappropriate photos or comments, etc.
Having lived and taught in many small towns, I have learned not to say negative things because you never know who is someone's cousin or best friend!
I tell my students that they own their thoughts and can think any thing they like until they make them public by writing them or speaking them (or photographing them). After that - they simply have to live with the fall out. I also remind them that when i was a kid and learning how to navigate safely in the world outside of my home, it was a more forgiving place. When I did or said something stupid or hurtful, after a while, everyone would forget. Now, if we do something dumb, and most of us do sometimes - someone somewhere probably has a record of it and it could haunt us forever.
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